Saturday, September 17, 2011
"Biness Karna Hai India Ko... Bread Pakode Kee Kasam" - Entrepreneurship All Around :)
Saturday, July 16, 2011
Taming The Mind Of Terror - Part 2
Terrorism, in my view, is an extremely unpredictable phenomenon and going forward can/will even effect us. And now, it is no more about our neighbour - it is much beyond it as it is both Global & Local.
Even I am aware of a lot of 'educated' people who are supremely radical and also of a lot of 'religious-minded' people who are equally radical & illogical. Trust me 'religion' is not the cause of radicalisation - economic weakness / un-education / non-exposure is and religion then becomes the level. And so my point is more on quality, rather than quantity of Education
Education should be pushed explicitly / talked about, as it is a very strong tool, out of the many available - & I feel this is not happening. And I am sure a lot of us will somewhere agree that we may be educated but not enlightened - purely because we have never been given adequate exposure to other faiths and ideologies, which is getting perceived as a cause of such problems. And we all know that India's education system has a lot of grounds to cover before it becomes efficient :)
Somewhere, we all are victims of ignorance, even if we are educated – there is no concept of comparative religion as a subject / no culture of debating / no action on developing a tolerant attitude. But I firmly believe that education (updated one) can inculcate the mearning of co-existence, which actually may be need of hour :).
Education can be purely demystifying a myth about something in a normal one-to-one conversation to setting a formal syllabus :)
Wednesday, July 13, 2011
Taming The Mind Of Terror
My belief is that the a proven solution to such a phenomenon is actually collective increase in focus and hence spending on 'Education', which somewhere I believe is not given due importance by World Governments - increasing defence budgets & weaponary / voicing condemnation of such acts / improving judiciary / setting up systems may solve the problem but still not be able to touch the root cause which is vulnerability.
And I feel, education, can defnitely make one strong, more rational & hence more balanced - important to make & take sound (even if wrong) decisions. Sorry for coming across passionate but then the more unfortunate part of the vicious circle is the backlash of such acts being borne by a particular community / faith - this further adds to the length of the vicious circle and not fair at all.
I am sure peace will prevail in the long term - it is just that no one can define 'long term', as of now.
Till then... lets continue to be good as we are the change we wish to see in the world :)
Have Faith In Faith - whatever 'faith' you follow :)
Saturday, May 28, 2011
Destiny - 2nd View
- Things are destined (or pre-destined) and hence one gets what is destined in his/her life - And that is why despite best of efforts, when the results are not favourable, it is because it is not destined - interesting & popular
- Destiny can be changed, by effort - 'karam say kismat likhee aur badlee jaa saaktee hai' - equally interesting but not a popular opinion :)
In my little experience, I don't know anyone personally, who has ever voiced the 2nd opinion & I fail to understand why :) I am not even talking about believing it but openly discussing in conversations. Among the more famour personalities, I only recall Dr. A.P.J. Abdul Kalam who has voiced the 2nd view (I am sure there are going to be more personalities like Dr. Kalam :))
The important question is - which view should one hold, believe in?
I want to believe in the 2nd view - Destiny Can Be Changed By Effort. And I have my own reasons for doing so.
# Simply put, this view makes sense - it is a positive statement, which if followed, can be a continuous source of both confidence & courage. Even if one believes in the first one, he/she continues to put in effort chasing goals / dreams and hence implicitly following the 2nd one - though he/she will never accept it :)
# Even if real stories that prove the 2nd view are few, they are looked forward with much more zeal & enthusiasm - another indication that how desperately (allow me to use this word) human beings want to believe in the 2nd view. Real stories - an extremely poor boy going on to become India's President, - few individuals (like Gandhi, Bhagat Singh, Bose) bringing the king (British) down, - cancer patients recovering from last stage, - richest of people contributing to philanthropy, - a middle class man from a developing country going on to becoming amongst the most richest in the world (Mr. Senior Ambani) and so on, tell the story of those few individuals who always had the highest amount of self-belief and somewhere refused the mediocre view that everything is pre-destined :)
# If you think carefully, you will realise life is all about choices. Your love for your parents, your desire to stay in your own country and not go abroad, the life partner you chose, the car you drive, the career you chose, the level of success / failure you get in your life is all because of decisions & actions you took. Somewhere I believe (and with due respect to everyone) opportunities are more or less same & equal for everyone & hence it all depends how much self-belief & patience you have & I believe both come from an unshakeable level of confidence in one's own potential & nothing more - no destiny, no luck & no superstition will help (by the way, I don't mean to equate destiny with luck or superstition). Of course, you have complete right and duty to believe in God, like I do, apart from believing in yourself - after all, there are famous adages - 'God Help Those, Who Help Themselves' / 'Harkat Mein Hee, Barkat Hai Khuda Kee' :)
# If still not convinced, ask yourself - what would you like to tell your family / your kids, your bosses / team at office, your venture partners - that 'Everything is possible, Don't give up' OR 'See if it doesn't work out, you can leave it & move on' (or something similar) :)
# I believe that realising only few things in life deserve that special effort from you as only few have the power to change the course of life, will help see the 2nd view clearly - after all, aspects which can make your day special deserve special confidence & effort :)
# And lastly, have faith in self-fulfilling prophecy - the more you believe in 2nd view, higher the probability of it to come true (show results) & more inspiring your day will end :)
So, are you convinced to believe in the 2nd view? If still not, I hope one day you do :)
Shukriya :)
Friday, May 20, 2011
More & More
I guess, why they are unsatisfied or at least emiting such a vibe (and I hope it is not a pretension) is that on one hand they don't have time, on another they don't want to stop running, on the third one they don't know what they want to do and on fourth hand, they want to do / achieve everything (I know there are only two hands but in today's era of multi tasking, all of us have developed multiple hands without our own knowledge :))
I guess this is more or less a story of everyone and may be this is what is known as a vicious circle of life. My thoughts:
- Can this vicious circle be handled better?
- Could this be a function of the inherent insecurity that all humans have that make them accept everything as a trait of herd & hence follow it? Has anybody tried to ever break this vicious circle?
- Is it even possible to break this vicious circle?
This is an unending topic and in my view, there may be solution to it. I will try covering it some other day, some other moment.
Till then... keep enjoying the run around the circle but yeah, do see if you can take a break once in while - maybe your run will be slightly more worth while :)
Love.
An Old Dream
Amidst sun, air and green
I sit for hours with new desires
and an old dream
The dream to continue enjoying the breeze
With the desire to be able to unfreeze
A mind, which is slowly becoming, slave to the unreal
And a heart, which is fast turning away from being surreal
Saturday, March 14, 2009
Power of Support
- A habit of under-playing
- Lack General Intelligence, required to think of an interesting answer and/or to have an interesting conversation
- Being a part of herd-mentality – every one gives such an answer, so I should also
- Dissatisfied (not happy) with what they are doing, but do not want to show it to the world
This blog is not about the first three points as I think no one can do anything with respect to those points. It is about the last one - ‘Dissatisfied (not happy) ...'.
And here I feel that this answer may be completely justified but still justifiably incomplete. Elaborating
There are 2 kind of people, broadly:
- Those who do what they enjoy doing
- Those who enjoy what they are doing
And as the cliché goes ‘no one knows what one wants to do’ and so people pursue all kind of vocations / professions (time pass :-)). And hence there will be no sermon on this blog about ‘go out, try searching for what you want to do’.
Rather, what I have gathered through innumerable interactions with my dad & other people is that what support (or unconditional support, if someone is blessed) can do for / to a talented individual, is something which has always been undersestimated / inexplicable. It can help realise the potential of talent one has, it can provide an unimaginable happiness and it can make the going smooth, irrespective of the situation.
Imagine if you have a supportive boss at work, a supportive sibling at home or for that matter a supportive acquaintance – your entire day changes and you look forward to every event / day at work / home. Whether you work in the administrative division of a school but want to be a rock-artist, support can make your journey enjoyable, even if it can't assure you of the destination.
No doubt, one need to be pro-active and persistent but even if one is lost or lacks the required pro-activeness, support from an external entity can help change the track of an individual - support can give confidence - the confidence one gets, when his/her decisions get the complete support, can act as a strong boost.
But yeah, supporting is a very tough task - it requires sacrifice & it has to come from within. As a result, stories of support, especially unconditional support, is not common - why else, audiences loved the support that John Nash's wife gave him, as shown in The Beautiful Mind or Anupam Kher's support to SRK's character in DDLJ.
Everyone needs support, everyone deserves support but everyone can't offer support, because expecting support needs honesty while offering support needs listening, empathy and slightly higher level of selflessness.
Hope the above makes sense and support continues to prevail.